With all due respect to both Shadi and Heather, the issue at the heart of Robert Kaplan's "Modern Heroes" piece really boils down to the basic concept a military mission, and how a small 'd' democratic nation sends its sons, daughters, wives, fathers into battle. It's not, as Kaplan claims, Americans' discomfort with traditional warrior virtues that is troubling us; it's our slowly dawning sense of responsibility They are there on our behalf. Yes, the choice to serve was (is) theirs, but the choice of the fight, this fight, is ours. Through the lens of the civics book, the duality of heroism and victimization is clear. This isn't cultural ambivalence, it's the political system righting itself.
Kaplan is correct that respect for skill and professionalism in the art of war, rather than appreciation for sacrifice, is in some ways a more appropriate form of honor. But if, as the old saying goes, "theirs is not to reason why," then whose is it? Who decides the tasks to which these skills are applied? We do. Ultimately, we're the deciders. [Just to avoid confusion, let me be clear that I mean the nation as a whole. In one sense, the war is fought 'not in our name' for the war's opponents -- in another sense it's in all of our name (about which more below).]
Kaplan resists the sentimentality that seems to pity the troops, but gets so wrapped up in his own romantic notion of valor that he misses the central issue: have we sent the troops into a battle that's winnable, no matter how great their professionalism? At root, the public's reaction isn't pity; it's buyer's remorse. The point isn't the hardship the troops are enduring. The point is that we put them there, and does what we've asked them to do make any sense??
A few last words about civilian casualties and detainee abuse. Again, there are important issues regarding the relationship of the nation and its people to such misdeeds. National Journal last week had an excellent Sydney Freedberg cover story about rules of engagement and proper use of force. We cannot absolve fighting men and women of their duty to conform to the rules of engagement and obey the laws of war (I suspect Robert Kaplan would agree, on the grounds of respecting rather than pitying). But it must also be said that there are heightened stresses associated with being an occupying force surrounded by guerrillas and militias -- again the issue of the situation in which we have placed our troops. Finally, I am perplexed that Kaplan is perplexed by the focus put on the detainee abuse committed by US troops. Here there is the added issue of the ramifications for the United States' standing in the world. We believe in individual rather than collective guilt, but again, the troops represent the country (and maybe even official policy). I didn't think it needed pointing out, but, to put it mildly, this is a really big deal. Do we really think the media has overplayed this? Really?